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"Olympic medalist Adam Rippon is a beloved gay icon who pissed off Donald Trump's son - now he tells how he got to know his Finnish boyfriend accidentally" Rippon became the Finns' favorite son-in-law last spring when it became public that he's dating Finnish real estate agent J-P Kajaala. At the olympics this year Rippon was one of the most internationally followed athletes already before winning a medal. HS (a newspaper in Finland) also previously wrote about his worldwide fame. After the olympics Rippon got more and more media attention. Some words on DWTS...
At the same time people in Finland became interested in Rippon for another reason. Last April he published the first pic of himself together with Kajaala. The media became interested. Rippon confirmed to the People magazine that he's dating Kajaala. In Finland the attention had another side too. American world famous star and olympic medalist is dating a Finn! It was a bit like a retake of the news that got enormous media attention years ago, when American pop star Adam Labert dated Finnish TV host Sauli Koskinen. Just like Lambert and Koskinen also Rippon and Kajaala have talked about their relationship very little in public. Rippon has told to People magazine that they intend to move together in California where Rippon lives. Problems with getting a visa are slowing things down.
Talking about Finland... What I love about Finland is that you can walk around everywhere. I love coming here. I've never been to a sauna, Rippon says. Kajaala laughs and says they'll have to do it later on.
We met on Tinder exactly a year ago Rippon says. It was when a fs competition was held in Espoo and he competed there. "I was very focused on the competition... That's why I spent time on Tinder" Rippon says and starts to laugh. Rippon has become famous for this kind of self ironic and funny comments in the US.
Some words about dedicating his oly medal to his mom and Reese W... On youtube Rippon makes videos for Cosmopolitan and tells for example that the Kardashians are the royalty in the US.
Rippon has something exceptional. Not many figure skaters, especially male skaters have managed to make the headlines with an Oscar outfit. Talking about Adam at the Oscars...
Rippon says that when Kajaala messaged him for the first time Kajaala thought that Adam just wants attention on instagram. Kajaala laughs. "Olympics was a crazy time. J-P wrote to me just like nothing (olympics) was going on. In a way it was awesome. I knew that he really likes me the way I am. On the other hand I was thinking does he have any clue what is going on." Both start to laugh.
When Rippon started to message with Kajaala on Tinder a year ago he didn't expect that they would stay in touch anymore during the olympics. Neither did he expect that he would be sitting now with Kajaala in a Finnish restaurant. Not even though he became exceptionally interested in Kajaala already in the beginning. "J-P was charmy and funny which is really difficult to be in a few messages, but he was good at it. After the olympics we didn't however message for a few weeks because it would have felt weird. I was thinking that I would never return to Finland." Now Rippon has visited Finland already several times and he has praised Helsinki often to his followers on instagram. Adam's favorite places in Helsinki are Löyly (a restaurant with a sauna), Hotel Clarion and Kauppatori (main marketplace). He took photos of the marketplace a year ago because he thought it was the only time he would visit the place. "When I think about what happened a year ago it feels crazy how many things have changed since then." After a few weeks' break in staying in touch Rippon and Kajaala started to message again. Gradually they started to communicate more often. Then last April the couple decided to publish a photo of the two of them together. Both knew that it would lead to many articles. "I'm very thankful that we got to know each other before the olympics and before all this crazy media attention. It makes our relationship totally different" Rippon says.
For Rippon it's no longer possible to avoid media attention. Biggest reason for this is his position as one of the most visible openly gay atheletes.
Some words about how being gay is a taboo in team sports and why it's more difficult for a hockey player to talk openly about sexuality than it is for a figure skater. "I'm in a totally different situation than a team athlete. When I compete i'm there all by myself. In team sports it's important that other team players trust you. That's why I think it's more difficult to come out. They don't want that anyone in the team thinks differently about them. At the same time I however think that they're not true to themselves. If you're not openly yourself, you don't know yourself entirely. And how can anyone trust you if you don't know yourself entirely?
For Rippon to come out wasn't self evident. There's still fear (in general) that a male figure skater can be bullied. Fear of being called gay. That's why straight men in figure skating are in a different position. People want to nurture an image that also straight men can do figure skating. Rippon told about his sexuality in 2015. One major factor was that he didn't make the 2014 oly team. Coming out can be scary for a top athlete but I don't think I was the best version of myself as an athlete until I came out. It's essential that you can respond to your doubters with your own performances. If someone says that you're weaker because you're gay you can always reply "yeah but I'm better than you". Rippon says that his mom warned him about coming out publicly. His mom believed that it could have an impact on how for example judges think of him. However Rippon decided to come out partly because he wanted to be an example to others.
Had there been some openly gay athlete when I was young, I would have probably felt more comfortable. Regardless, Rippon doesn't wanna be known only as a gay athlete or a gay icon. He wants to be known as a successful athlete who is admired also by those Americans who have never met any openly gay person. Adam wants to be so nice that people simply cannot not like him. Furthermore Rippon wants to bring his story to a more general level, so that other gay people can associate with it. When my story became more universal, many people realised that they have similar experiences. They too have felt uncomfortable and feared that others don't like them. Then they saw me, a guy who has had all kinds of difficulties but who is now in the olympic team and who fights against the US president.
Rippon hasn't stopped making political comments after the olympics. Some words about Trump, Clinton... If Trump would be an olympic athlete he would be kicked out of the team. I'm sure that such a cocky and mean person wouldn't be accepted to represent the US at the olympics. It's a pity that he's our president.
The end.
Adam sure has received lots of attention in the Finnish media.